Asking for relationship status

1. How do you ask about relationship status?
2. Is it rude to ask relationship status?
3. When should you ask for relationship status?

How do you ask about relationship status?

Be straightforward.

"Hey. I'm really enjoying spending time and getting to know you over the past couple months. To manage expectations, I am looking for someone who is open to taking the relationship to the next level because this is what I want. Is this something you are looking for as well?

Is it rude to ask relationship status?

Generally, asking someone about their relationship status is pretty rude. You may have the best intentions on asking about that ex or inquiring about whether or not someone has tried Tinder/OK Cupid/joining a church group to meet someone new, but it is only going to make the single person uncomfortable.

When should you ask for relationship status?

Some dating experts say that you should have the conversation no longer than two or three months into the relationship. A lot of people go by their gut instinct after spending time with the other person. You also want to remember that the DTR convo isn't all about you — it's also about how the other person feels.